Training a large language model is like teaching someone how to speak and behave. Imagine a kid learning a language and being gradually guided to answer questions appropriately. We can break this process into three main stages, each with everyday examples.

Step 1: Learning by Reading — Self-Supervised Pre-Training

Think of a child growing up by reading every book available in the home library. Instead of having a teacher always explain things, the child learns the language naturally by listening, reading, and trying to understand context, grammar, and vocabulary.

How It Works in LLMs:

Step 2: Learning What’s Right and Wrong — Supervised Fine-Tuning

Now, consider that the same child has a teacher who guides them on proper behavior and acceptable language. The teacher shows the child examples of good answers and explains why certain responses are more appropriate than others.

The same concept works in LLMs:

Real-Life Analogy:

Consider a scenario where a teacher explains why certain instructions—like “don’t run in the hallways”—are important even though a child might know how to run. The teacher’s guidance shapes the child’s understanding of the proper way to act or answer.

Step 3: Learning by Feedback — Reinforcement Learning from Human Feedback (RLHF)

Imagine the child now taking part in a class debate. They speak, and the teacher and classmates provide immediate praise for good points and gentle correction for weak arguments. Over time, the child refines how they articulate ideas based on this feedback.

How It Works in LLMs:

Further Reading for Advanced Users:

For those interested in delving deeper into the methodologies behind InstructGPT and RLHF (the main papers I was focused on in this article), the following papers are recommended:

These resources offer a comprehensive understanding of the techniques and advancements in training LLMs to align with human preferences.