Wait, what? Please hear me out. I believe the way we’ve been going about growth these past few years has distracted us from why we’re here in the first place.

By gaining followers quickly, we lose sight of what we want to actually do. Share knowledge, educate, entertain. We as creators have something to say and we don’t just want to say it to someone. We’d like active participants in our mutually beneficial experiences. Fancy way of saying, we all want to belong.

Our goal shouldn’t be “to be an influencer”. You already are influencing someone. And if you can “influence” a new person once per day for 10 years, you’ll gain 3,650 followers.

You do 10 hacks, tips, tricks… whatver — each day.. you’d have 36,500 followers in 10 years.

So many blog posts, youtube videos, Instagram stories are about how to gain a huge number of followers in 1 day. or 24 hours or 48 hours.

Sure you can trick people into following you, but do you want to?

Sure you can hack your way through a forest but you’ll be cutting down a lot of beautiful trees in the process.

Probably the biggest culprit is a youtube video titled “How to Gain 100K Instagram Followers in 48 Hours” — How? They bought or traded for shoutouts from accounts with Millions of followers. To be honest this is a method I’ve used to gain followers. And I’ve built an entire site around getting regrammed.

Tips, Tricks and hacks will get you followers. I’ve nearly guaranteed it to dozens of clients. But what it won’t get you is fans. That’s up to you. I can teach you every trick. I can change the way you think about Instagram and I can even teach you how to do it yourself. But You’re not going to be doing the thing that you want to do. You’ll be hacking your way through the jungle instead of creating your own forest.

So You Want to be an Influencer

Here’s my recipe for success

With all that in mind. It’s hard to know how far you can get by just creating. I’ve made it a personal mission to educate that a “Build it and they will come” mentality will not work. Many of those are marketing.

I take it for granted that each person reading this will know exactly what they are good at. If you don’t have a thing, feel free to reach out. If you do have a thing and find it hard to grow, reach out too. I still offer growth services for a fee and I am always creating free resources for people to grow their following.

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Thanks to Shaun, Bianca, Ali, and Brian for reading early drafts.

Heavily influenced by: Teach Yourself Programming in Ten Years http://norvig.com/21-days.html