The fun part of working as engineers is that we get to solve challenges. We are expected to deliver high-quality solutions on time, which puts us under pressure. As a result, many engineers (primarily juniors) become silent when they need to say no.

But how do you know when to say no? What signals that it’s time to stop?

Here is an oversimplified framework that is easy to remember and use for requests, feedback, bugs, and tasks.

The Five-point framework

The list can be expanded based on your needs, but I strongly urge keeping it short and straightforward.

How to use it

  1. Ask yourself these questions, and if you cannot answer one of them or do not feel confident about your answer, then say no until it is resolved.
  2. You can also say stop in the middle of a task


Originally published at https://newsletter.engstuff.xyz on June 22, 2022.