When you can’t control what you can’t control but you also can’t look away, sometimes the phone is a crutch... to look away... in this time... when I looked at the phone... you all provided another way to look at things.... education, discussion... when the solution is not in sight, more ideas are great to see... the ideas were all over the place... the reality is that in ICU the family members can’t do much... but when anyone believes they can help, they actually do help more (than if they didn’t believe they could help)... so your messages and thoughtfulness gave me that... kind regards...